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Ye Olde Randome Babble Thread - 112

Discussion in 'Whatnots' started by dmc, Apr 14, 2010.

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  1. Marceror

    Marceror Chaos Shall Be Sown In Their Footsteps Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) BoM XenForo Migration Contributor [2015] (for helping support the migration to new forum software!)

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    Kit, the fact that she's willing to meet with you at all is proof that she's not ready to be marrying someone else. She's still too wrapped up in her emotions with you.

    I feel (just a little) sorry for the other guy. He just married someone who doesn't even have the emotional capacity to be fully committed to him. Marriage can be difficult enough even when both parties are fully committed. I was probably too generous in giving them a year.
     
  2. dmc

    dmc Speak softly and carry a big briefcase Staff Member Distinguished Member ★ SPS Account Holder Resourceful Adored Veteran New Server Contributor [2012] (for helping Sorcerer's Place lease a new, more powerful server!)

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    Well, I wouldn't give them too much time, but that's based solely on her past behavior. Also, Kit, she's just looking to make her life easier and to avoid guilt. If you're ready to move on, then just get it over with and forget about her as best you can. Continued contact in any form just isn't healthy for you (it isn't for her either, but gives a rat's ass about that?).
     
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    Kit, I would argue that the best thing to do is move on and forget about her. Count your blessings that you have that opportunity. I am stuck dealing with my ex for the rest of my life because we had kids together. So the torment never ends for me, and in fact it's worse as I watch my children being raised completely without my input and there's not a <snipping> thing I can do about it.

    Go find a girl who shares your viewsd and lifestyle, and live the high life, my friend, whatever you envision that life as being.
     
  4. Marceror

    Marceror Chaos Shall Be Sown In Their Footsteps Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) BoM XenForo Migration Contributor [2015] (for helping support the migration to new forum software!)

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    Agreed, and if you find her, remember, there's no rush to bring rings and contracts into it. Things tend to get more complicated afterwards. Better yet, play the field for a while.
     
  5. Splunge

    Splunge Bhaal’s financial advisor Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!)

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    Kit, if you want my advice, and you want to piss her off, you could always start an affair with her husband. :hahaerr:

    On an unrelated topic, why is it that people generally don't want to take my advice?
     
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  6. Silvery

    Silvery I won't pretend to be your friend coz I'm just not ★ SPS Account Holder Adored Veteran

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    I can't believe that people don't! You're like Oprah!
     
  7. Blades of Vanatar

    Blades of Vanatar Vanatar will rise again Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!)

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    MMmmmmmm... Ice cream Sundae. Yummy! :kneel: ALlL SHALL BOW TO THE ICE CREAM GODS! :kneel:
     
  8. Caradhras

    Caradhras I may be bad... but I feel gooood! Veteran

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    LMAO!!! Thanks Splunge. I laughed so much it actually hurt. :shake:

    On a more serious note, I think dmc is right, keeping in touch with her is not good for you Kit.
     
  9. Disciple of The Watch

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    Kit, rockstar her F'N W-word ass to the cold hard street and be done with it. A truce? Really? The only good truce to me is burning bridges for good. Keep that W-word out of your life at any cost.

    On a different note, daaaamn, that was one hell of an evening. The double-toppings pizza was just awesome. What a rush, and what a trip. And I think after all the experimenting, it's safe to say the guys and myself are now in the Industrial camp... that's right, moving away from the metal roots to explore new grounds.
     
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  10. Loreseeker

    Loreseeker A believer in knowledge Veteran

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    My 5 year high school reunion party ended a few hours ago.

    Nothing seemed to have really changed (other then one of my friends dyed her hair red and her twin sister is having a baby :) ).
    I still only knew the words for 1 song out of 5.
    I still can't dance.
    My friends still backed me up every step of the way.

    Nothing is forever, but I am happy. We are still the same.
     
  11. Kitrax

    Kitrax Pantaloons are supposed to go where!?!?

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    WTF??? Who's side are you on?!?!? Don't feel sorry for that b****rd. He's a home wrecker and he knows it. You should only feel hate, anger, and rage towards him! :flaming:

    Well, since a MOD is kind of breaking the RRT rules and is swearing, why can't I....right? :p

    See, here's the thing. You guys have seen a very few of the thousand pictures of her modeling. Under that b**chy wall she's built, there is a body I can't help but lust after. It's like Pringles' slogan...once you pop, you can't stop! Especially after partaking of such things. :love: Now, don't think that's I'm totally nuts for her. But at any opportunity, I'm going to get what I can. And should such an opportunity for infidelity arise...you bet I'll be all over that. He wreaked my home; so I will jump at the chance to wreak his (which is technically mine). :evil: Once a cheater, always a cheater....Eye for an eye and all that. :)

    What? Sure you can.

    /shotgun cocking sound

    There's *always* something you can do... :evil:

    Oh, and I've been talking to this chick who is very similar to me in so many ways it's kind of freaky. :eek: Cute...but not hot...and slightly on the big size. Say it with me folks: yes, I am *that* superficial and shallow..." :rolleyes:
    I really like this chick though. :)

    Well...besides the fact that I'm not gay....he's not my type. :p But from everything I've heard about him, I honestly think he might be gay, but just hasn't realized it yet.

    ---------- Added 0 hours, 9 minutes and 54 seconds later... ----------

    She has something I want.... Actually, she has a few things I want (it's not her). I also have a few things that she wants. One of which is clearly me... ;)
     
  12. Marceror

    Marceror Chaos Shall Be Sown In Their Footsteps Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) BoM XenForo Migration Contributor [2015] (for helping support the migration to new forum software!)

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    In that case, he's going to get what's coming to him. It always amazes me that when someone leaves their spouse to be with another person, the other person doesn't heed the massive red flag flailing in front of their face.

    The divorce rate is above 50%, and you're about to marry someone who has already proven they don't have what it takes to see a marriage commitment through? It's like, people should run some quick math on their decisions every once and a while. That marriage is doomed from the start. Aint gonna make it.

    Messy.
     
  13. 8people

    8people 8 is just another way of looking at infinite ★ SPS Account Holder Adored Veteran

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    [​IMG] Just imagine, if she has a record like King Henry VIII then he might end up decapitated :D
     
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  14. Splunge

    Splunge Bhaal’s financial advisor Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) Torment: Tides of Numenera SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!)

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    Tell us something we didn't already know. :p
     
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    There's nothing LEGAL I can do!

    Let's all sing it together:

    I'm Henry the Eighth I am
    Henry the Eighth I am I am
    I got married to the widow next door
    She's been married seven . . . TIMES before!
    And every one was a Henry
    HENRY!
    She wouldn't settle for a Willie or a Sam
    I'm a rich old man named Henry
    Henry the Eighth I am I am
    Henry the Eighth I am

    Second verse,
    Same as the first!
    A little bit louder and a little bit worse!
     
  16. Silvery

    Silvery I won't pretend to be your friend coz I'm just not ★ SPS Account Holder Adored Veteran

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    I'm in shock. My favourite teacher from secondry school has died. The guy was my drama teacher and totally amazing!
     
  17. Disciple of The Watch

    Disciple of The Watch Preparing The Coming of The New Order Veteran

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    Nonsense! It's called *education*.

    That gets the DotW Seal of Approval. Indeed, it would be awesome closure, and if you're gonna go out, go out with a bang (pun intended... maybe). :shake:
     
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  18. Blades of Vanatar

    Blades of Vanatar Vanatar will rise again Adored Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!)

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    My neighbors are all big a-holes! Why? Because I have been told that I am an a-hole for kicking a cat. Now wait! Before you think of me as a jerk, listen please. I have a mother cat and her litter of 4 kittens squatting in my woodpile underneath a lean-to of my garage. My wife and 2 yr old love the cats now and feed them regularly. My neighbor has a big old nasty Tom that lurks outside all of the time. He came into my yard and was going after some of the kittens yesterday morning. So I ran up to him and kicked him about 20 yards or more. I must of hurt him because his is visibly limping now. Hey, I was trying ot save a kitten, as the Tom has killed other cats in our street previously and is very nasty. I was called a jerk, an a-hole and giving the finger to by my neighbor's household for doing this. Am I wrong? Am I a bad man? I think not. Screw 'em all.
     
  19. Silvery

    Silvery I won't pretend to be your friend coz I'm just not ★ SPS Account Holder Adored Veteran

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    Shoot it!
     
  20. Disciple of The Watch

    Disciple of The Watch Preparing The Coming of The New Order Veteran

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    Blades, for a fee, I can take care of 'em. :evil:
     
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