Goodbye my baby...

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Our baby died...
In two months he would born but he won't thanks to some stup... ... ...

Last monday my girfriend and I were walking around when suddenly a young man in a bike came very quicly trying to cross to the other side of the walkway because he saw the streetlight about to get red... He bumped my girfriend so hard... even I tried so hard to push her away from the path of the guy but I couldn't...

Our baby died on the way to the hospital.
The guy tried an apoligise and tried to run away, some people saw everything and took him...

He would not get but some few days in jail but that's all, like I don't care; I spent next 3 days holding myself because I wanted to kill the guy.

I wanted you to know that after all, I won't be a father.

 

I'm here. Sounds a bit shallow, but I'm sorry to hear that.

 

that's terrible.

My own experiences with death of those far too young to pass on makes it seem as if those who we want the most to stay are always the ones taken.

I'll stop there before I bring my own demons to show.

 

Sydax,

That's horrible - I'm so sorry, man.

 

What to say .

I know words are nothing, I just wish you and your girl all the very best from the bottom of my heart

Take care of both of you. So sorry .

 

Oh no...
That's terrible. I dont know what to say.

Take good care of your girlfriend, and yourself.

 

Well, you are a father, Sydax.

I hope you will manage to find comfort with each other and in the good times that predate this tragic event and the memory of the little baby.

Do take your time to cry, though.

 

Uytuun has good advice. Cry. Cry your eyes out. It doesn't sound like it helps, but it does.

 

Sydax, Uytuun is right - you're already a father, your baby is just in heaven. He'll always be your #1.

There's nothing I can say to mitigate this tragedy, but know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

 

This probably won't help get you over your grief, but you might want to check on the laws of when an unborn fetus is 'alive'. I remember a trial in the U.S. where the hubby murdered his pregnant wife. The baby died, too, but according to the laws of that state, the six-month old fetus was deemed as 'having a soul' and therefore 'alive' in the eyes of the law. Double murder for the hubby. Score one for justice.

Yes, cry if you want. There's no easy way to deal with a death of a family member.

/massive hugs

 

^ with 6 arms.

 

I'm so sorry to hear this Sindax, prayer for you, your girl and the baby

 

I am really sorry to hear that.

I have no words for that.

 

I am so sorry to hear that.

*massive hugs*

Cry as much as you need to. Tears always help.

 

I'm very sorry for you, my deepest condolescence, truly.

 

I'm really, really sorry to hear this mate! My prayers for you...

 

I'm pained and truly sorry to hear this my first-born died when 27 hours old I can empathize with both of yours pain. My deepest condolences to you both.

 

Sorry to hear that, man... I know what it's like, I lost my unborn daughter four years ago. That sucks. Hope you're holding okay.

 

My deepest condolences.

 

I am very sorry Syndax, so very sorry.