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What do you do when you feel sad?

Discussion in 'Whatnots' started by Faragon, Aug 7, 2003.

  1. Faded Gems: 11/31
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    (Hmmmm, been a while since I last posted here... Cheers, everybody!)

    I usually turn off all the lights, bring out a guitar, and play it until my fingers bleed. Well, that's what I do if I'm sad or bored, and don't really feel like socializing...
     
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    LOL! I've always wanted a stack of cheap china just for throwing, a safe place to smash it, and someone to clean up after me.
     
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    MoN, you inspire me.
     
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    Rotku I believe I can fly Veteran Pillars of Eternity SP Immortalizer (for helping immortalize Sorcerer's Place in the game!) New Server Contributor [2012] (for helping Sorcerer's Place lease a new, more powerful server!)

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    When I'm sad I tend to talk to people. But if I'm feeling really sad I just like to be alone by myself. Go play some hockey with loud music in the background, or go read a book outside, or just go lye on my bad thinking.
    Screaming often helps as well.
     
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    [​IMG] LOL kick a puppy! :grin: :grin:


    Most times i go and smash something up too. I'm not living in the city so its easy. I just take me big axe and go smash some wood. Or if i dont have any wood at home i run a bit to come to the forest.... There's always some dry wood there ;) :D

    This helps me.
     
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    Arahar Hmm, it's a dwarf. Distinguished Member ★ SPS Account Holder

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    I just sort of withdraw the sadness into myself and lock it away to be dealt with later. If later turns out to be a couple days later and I can't remember why I was sad it's a good thing right.

    (oddly enough I do this with most feelings)
     
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    Go into my room and play Avril at the top of my computers volume and work on my fanfic or blog. Or yell at my little brother.
     
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    During the summer, I go golfing, everything seems better after slapping a little white ball around or I go skateboarding. During the winter I hit the outdoor rink and skate.

    I always listen to music, so that doesn't work for me.
     
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    Shell Awww, come and give me a big hug!

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    [​IMG] I go down to my mum's. A bit of company always helps.
     
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    [​IMG] I can't play music anymore. My mother keeps complaining she doesn't like it but I have to put up with her singing. She expects me to sit quietly all the time, it's unfair!
     
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    Loerand My heart holds no fear for death

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    Buy yourself a headset ;) I did :D
     
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    [​IMG] I did have one - but it broke because I played the music too loud, and then my mother complains I ignore her all the time and I'm unsociable, I can't win.
     
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    When I get sad, if it's for any reason other than my relationship then I talk about it to my partner. Sadly most of the time it's because of the relationship, in which case I type my little heart out in notepad and blog it somewhere.
    Either that or I hug a friend or two, or in most cases they know when to hug me.
     
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    I start reading a book and get really involved in the story so that I don't have to think about my own problems. then I just go to sleep and somehow things always get better after that. :)
     
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    I usually just either zone out, or cut on some music and write. I find that when I'm not feeling so hot I write better. Go figure.
     
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    I usually take it out on the nearest person, then brood for a while. Letting the emotions build up and up until its behind a wall of anger then I lash out at my close friends and relatives. Then i get a tatoo and hang around biker bars.

    Well, not really. Thats a lie.

    I usually just get angry. That's fun. Then I listen to some loud angry music and hurt myself.

    Then I sleep.
     
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    Earl Grey Mmm... hot tea! Veteran

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    [​IMG] Anything that takes my mind off the problem I have or think I have.

    - Take a long walk can be very refreshing for the mind.

    - Having a very nice long dinner is also good. Meat Fondue & wine or cheese & wine for example.
    Drink just a little bit more wine than you really need for the food - say a whole bottle instead of about a half. No more, you don't want to go from being a bit "tipsy" to getting sloshed. Going to bed with everything spinning and almost making you sick is not recommended.
    A nice meal can be a fantastic boost to your well-being.
     
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    A pint of Ben&Jerry's Chocolate Heath Bar Crunch and a spoon works pretty well for me...
     
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    I'm not that big on Heath Bars, but Dean's Chocolate Moose Tracks would go a long ways toward making me feel better. :)
     
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    I brood, then I play some violent video game and listen to music
     
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